I’m not really sure how to answer this question. Since our outdoor season began a few weeks ago, some of my athletes have asked me what is a good hammer, javelin, shot-put, and discus mark for the outdoor season. My initial thought is it depends on the event and that it tends to move year to year.
I started writing this article a week ago, and I still cannot come up with a reasonable response that I think is sufficient for the audience. If you look at just Empire 8 marks over the course of the past seven years, men’s distances have gone up exponentially. For example, Luis and Brandon scored in the men’s weight in the 2013 Empire 8 Indoor Championships with throws under 40’. Luis broke the meet record in 2016 with a throw of 18.83m (61’). If a male thrower hits 50’ in either the shot or the weight at the conference championship, there is a very good chance they will win the meet.
It begs the question, is the mark more important or is it more important to win?
On the women’s side, last year at our Outdoor Empire 8 Conference Championships, only one female thrower threw the hammer over 40m (131’). The conference champion ended up earning an All-American award in the hammer at DIII Nationals.
I think good comes down to what the consensus of individuals agree on. The exact mark may change from year to year, but the top 20 athletes are selected to compete at Indoor Nationals and the top 25 are selected for Outdoor Nationals. From my coaching perspective, I believe good marks are going to vary from individual to individual. I currently am coaching five freshmen throwers. They each have a different perspective on what they think is good. That is what makes it difficult to suggest a hardline on a distance.
The Empire 8 Conference takes the top 16 individual athletes per event group to compete at the indoor and outdoor championship meet. The minimum distance to throw to qualify for the meet varies from year to year. If a thrower qualifies for either the Indoor or Outdoor Championships, I believe that to be a good throw.
What do you think is a good throw?
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
With the close of the indoor season that occurred this past weekend for most of my throwers, I thought it would be a good time to reflect upon their impressions of their first collegiate indoor seasons. As customary, over the past weekend I sent them all an email. In the email, I asked them to think about a couple of questions that we would discuss answers to at practice this week. The questions were:
I’m sure some of you are probably thinking, “This coach. Why does he spend so much time on this nonsense? How does this help his throwers throw farther?” Some might be thinking that this is an important step for the athletes to take as they continue on with their throwing journeys. I am particular to the latter. I am because at the time I was a collegiate athlete, I was never asked anything of the sort. I never felt as though my opinion or thoughts mattered. I was just there to fill a jersey and throw. That is painful for me to write, but in my heart of hearts I believe it is true.
For the most part, I had a wonderful collegiate experience. Academically, Fredonia prepared me for the position I am in today. I was given an opportunity to coach. I will forever be grateful for the chance to coach in 2004-05. Without that break, I wouldn’t be the person I am today.
I think it’s important to have that specific type of conversation with your athletes. I think it’s important for them to be a part of the process. It offers them a sense of autonomy and some control over the path that they want to take. It also offers them ownership in the process. It assists in developing trust and respect between the coach and athlete. When athletes are part of the process, they are more apt to buy into the process as a whole mechanism, be able to view the bigger picture, and understand that the path and journey (process) are more important than the outcome.
On Monday and Tuesday I had this conversation with my throwers. I spoke to two of them on Monday. I spoke to two more yesterday (Tuesday). I will be speaking to the fifth thrower tomorrow (Thursday). We discussed goals they have for the upcoming outdoor season, their expectations for the remaining couple months of the semester, and which events they would like to prioritize during the course of the outdoor season.
Most of my throwers are main event discus throwers. Two of them competed at their respective state championships last season (one in the discus and one in the shot). One will be a main event hammer thrower. I’m not quite sure about the other two yet. One thinks she wants to be a main event hammer thrower, with the discus coming in a close second. The fifth thrower wants to try all four events and, “Let’s see what happens.” I don’t like that very much, but we will see what happens.
The importance of figuring out main events or top two events is twofold. First, where do the athletes and I think they have the best chance of performing well. Second, we have a time and daylight issue until the middle of April. Due to their extremely time consuming and hectic course loads, we need to end practice a little earlier than I have in other seasons because they have labs either at 4pm, 5pm, or 6pm. This varies based on the day, and not to mention the classes they have that finish at 3:50pm and 4:50pm. Things get a little tight, so by establishing main events and second events, we can have more structured practice days and weeks that should provide each of them with the individualized time they are due in order to reach their goals. It is confusing at times, even for me, but that is why we write everything down and keep track of the number of throws per event to ensure they are dedicating the right amount of time to the right event.
As coaches, how do you engage your athletes in conversations like this? Do you feel it’s important to discuss expectations and goals with your athletes? If so, what does your process look like?
I’m always interested in learning more about how high-school, collegiate, and post-collegiate throwers discuss the goal-setting and expectation process with their athletes. I’ve been having these types of conversations with my athletes since I first started coaching in 2004. I hope you consider taking the time to share your experiences with this process.
Rather than write, it may make for a better podcast. Let me know if you are interested, I’d love to have a discussion about this topic or any other you’d like to talk about.
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
This year marked the first time that the Empire 8 Indoor Track & Field Championships would be held over the course of two days. For the throwers, that meant we would be throwing the shot-put on Friday and the weight on Saturday. We usually don’t practice both events on the same day, so I thought our practice schedule replicated our championship meet schedule.
We arrived a couple of hours before the men were to start throwing. In both the shot-put and weigh throw, the men threw first followed by the women. My kids (my throwers, but I prefer to refer to them as my kids) were loose and very relaxed before the start of the competition. We really didn’t throw hard this week. Not much in regards of technique can be gained, but I believe a lot can be lost if the right technical aspects of the throw or lead up to the throw are not really focused on. If you’d like to go back and read a previous post about focus, you can do so by clicking here.
Overall, Gabbie and Ally had really good training sessions leading up to the women’s shot competition. The conference takes the top 16 declared throwers. In our case, there was a tie for 15th and one of our throwers did not make it in. She was the 17ththrower.
Ally was throwing in flight one. She was the last thrower in the flight of 8 women. She warmed up really well and looked pretty good through the rounds. Her best of the day was 10.11m. It was her third meet of the season in which she had multiple throws over 10m. Ally would have needed to hit a personal best of about 1’5” to qualify for the finals on this day.
In flight two, it was the first time we have had a Nazareth College female thrower in that flight of any event in my six years as coach. Gabbie was seeded 4th coming into the meet. A solid performance with a throw anywhere over 11.25m would have placed 6th. Gabbie had multiple meets in which she had a performance better than 11.25m. I was enthusiastic that she would have at least made the finals and given herself an opportunity to score a point for our team. However, the best laid plans sometimes go off track.
Warm-ups looked really good. Gabbie had a couple of throws at right around the 12m line. Once the competition began, however, things took a turn. There were a couple of throwers directly ahead of Gabbie that fouled their first throws. Nothing significant, they walked out the front of the circle because they didn’t like their distances. I wasn’t sure what went through her mind until after the competition, but her first throw was a very passive 10.49m, about 5’ less than she warmed up with. I walked over to her after her throw and asked what she thought of the throw. But before I tell you what we discussed, we’ll continue with the competition.
Her second throw also went 10.49m, about 3’ out of the 8th and final position to make the finals. Again, it was a passive throw. The same about throw number 3. Overall, Gabbie finished 10th.
After the flight was over, Gabbie and I discussed the competition and what we each thought happened. I’m not going to share what Gabbie and I shared with each other in detail, but we did discuss the notion of rising up to the competition and feeling confident in yourself as an athlete about the abilities you possess and how to bring them out when it counts in a championship meet. We spoke for about 30 minutes on the bench within the throwing area. After our conversation, Gabbie spent some time speaking with her family. I spent that time speaking with my other three kids that were going to throw the weight tomorrow with Gabbie. This is what I shared with them:
We spent the better part of the rest of the competition discussing these five topics above. They probably would have been better served on Thursday, the day before the competition, but we had a really good week of practice so I didn’t think it was necessary to have a conversation like this the day before.
Reflecting back on my collegiate experience, I never had a conversation like this with my coach. Well, I have four throwing coaches back then, and not once did we have a conversation that included the above mentioned items. It was pretty much go on and throw (not that inspirational).
I mentioned item five because our current throwers are not at the point in their careers that they can have an off day and still qualify for finals at certain meets. In the case of our conference championship this weekend, two throwers needed big time performances just to make the finals of the weight.
Saturday morning started out really well. Our kids had a good breakfast, woke up in relatively good spirits, and seemed more engaged in what was going on than they did the day before. We arrived at the facility about an hour before the men’s competition began. All four throwers were much more relaxed than they were the night before. I wish I could take credit for that, but unfortunately only one of the four really enjoys throwing the shot, while the other three prefer the weight, which is why they were probably more amped up than the night before.
Gabbie got things rolling in flight one of the women’s weight. She warmed up really well, and hit a big third round throw of 12.88m. That throw won the flight and was a 77cm personal best throw. She came in clutch with round 3, but most importantly she was aggressive through all three rounds and was visibly more amped up than she was the night before. She got things going for us in a big way.
In flight two we had Ally, Bailey, and Grace. There were 9 throwers in this flight, so we knew that they had to at least throw as far as Gabbie’s first flight throw to give themselves a good chance to make the finals. Bailey and Grace came out throws blazing in round 3 with a personal best of 13.74m for Bailey and 13.66m for Grace. Bailey’s throw broke our school record and was a personal best by close to 90cm. Grace was 7cm from her personal best. Ally hit a second round best of 12.67m, good for 10th place right behind Gabbie in 9th.
With 8 throwers advancing to the finals, Grace qualified in 7th and Bailey qualified in 6th place. As of this placing, we knew we had a good chance of at least earning one point in the weight. Grace came out very aggressive through all three of her final round throws, but didn’t hit a mark better than 13.66m. Bailey hit another personal best of 13.85m in round 6, securing herself a 6th place finish and setting a personal best by 97cm on this day. Bailey came in with a throw of 12.88m, and threw very far when it mattered.
This marked the first time we had multiple throwers make the finals in a women’s event. In the past we had a thrower make the finals of the women’s discus in 2016 at the Empire 8 Outdoor championships.
Saying I’m a proud coach is an understatement! I’m more proud of the adversity they all had to overcome throughout this indoor season. Gabbie is continuing on and will be competing at our regional meet this Friday at 3pm at Ithaca College. Gabbie and Ally joined us in the middle of November due to other sport seasons (soccer and volleyball respectfully). Grace hadn’t ever thrown a weight before this season. And Bailey increased her personal best from high school by over 5’ in the weight throw. Everyone achieved lifetime bests in the shot-put and weight throw this season. Bailey became our first female thrower to score a point at the Empire 8 Indoor Track & Field Championships.
I’m really looking forward to the start to the outdoor season.
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
Last week our collegiate team competed at Ithaca College. It was one of the bigger meets we were going to attend all season. Coming back for the spring semester, it was the third meet we had competed in. Thus far, we have competed at meets in Houghton, Utica, Ithaca, and most recently at SUNY Brockport.
This article will focus on happenings from Chipotle after our Ithaca meet.
In all honesty, our Ithaca throws weren’t what I thought they were going to be. Four of our five athletes competed at the meet, and for the most part all of our throwers had a really good week of practice. Unfortunately, sometimes the best programmed plans don’t go the way one would expect them to. It was the first meet of the year that none of our throwers made the finals in either the shot-put or weight throw.
After the meet, we stopped for dinner. I took a group of athletes to Chipotle. While we were waiting in line, I overheard two of my throwers ahead of me have this conversation.
Thrower 1—I’m not sure why I didn’t throw farther today.
Thrower 2—Yeah, I worked hard this week. I was expecting bigger throws.
Thrower 1—I thought I worked hard too. I’m not sure.
I’m paraphrasing a bit, because there were more colorful words than I can write in this post.
My initial thoughts were thoughts of concern. First, I’m glad that two of my throwers had a conversation about this. This line probably wasn’t the first time the conversation between these two throwers occurred. I have a suspicion that this conversation began back at the fieldhouse in Ithaca. Second, even though I only caught this quick snippet, there is a lot going on here.
Up until that point, it was the best week of practice we had since we returned for the spring semester. Their coursework was pretty light. Their training sessions in the weight room looked really good. Their technique looked pretty good as well. So, what happened?
Before I share my thoughts, I’m interested in hearing your thoughts? For any coaches out there that may have experienced something like this, what was your initial reaction and why do you think your athlete performances did not meet either your or their expectations?
When I first started coaching in 2004, I was tasked with coaching my friends. Most of the athletes on the SUNY Fredonia team at the time were my teammates from the season before. For the couple of senior throwers on the team at that time, we had a history together. I only had a couple of freshmen that season. I also had an athlete that decided he wanted throw, with no prior throwing experience.
For the athletes that I was teammates with in the past, I didn’t find it that difficult to coach them. Initially things went pretty well. It wasn’t until they didn’t throw as far as they wanted at the beginning of the season that we ran into a couple of problems. I found it difficult back then to have difficult conversations with my kids, especially since they were my previous teammates. I failed to lay out expectations for them. I didn’t ask them what they expected of me. It was difficult.
It wasn’t difficult with the new throwers on the team. Tim, Nick, and I worked really well together that first season. The same can be said for Alex and Garrett. We had some good chemistry. It took until the outdoor season, but we finally figured each other out. It took time. It also took a lot of work on my part.
I wasn’t sure where the proverbial line was. I didn’t treat them like my friends, however I did make some mistakes. First, I trained with the kids a couple of times a week. I wanted to continue my throwing career, and there were times where I wasn’t cognizant of what I was doing. I was taking away time from them to satisfy my needs. Second, I trained with them in the weight room too. I think they enjoyed training together. It added a little bit of intensity to what we were doing and what we were trying to accomplish in the circle.
I made sure to speak to each thrower for a good amount of time at each practice. We only had five throwers my first season, so it was relatively easy to spend a lot of time with each thrower. We spoke about classes, course work, families, and what they wanted to do after graduating. I shared things about my personal life as well. At the time I thought it would show my vulnerability and that I was more than just a coach. I’ve discussed it before, but I was enrolled in grad school and was teaching full-time. I didn’t have a lot free time on my hands, but what I had I tried to dedicate as much as possible to them.
Now, I begin each season with a discussion about expectations. You can read more about that in a previous article I wrote about expectations. I believe that the more time we spend sharing and discussing expectations gives everyone the opportunity to share what they want to get out of the season. More importantly it tells me what I need to do to help my athletes realize their dream(s) and vision, whatever they may be.
The conversation also brings a sense of accountability. If either person in the coach-athlete dyad deviates from the expectation, it helps hold us to what was previously discussed. This part takes some time. It takes trust and a willingness by the coach to have these difficult conversations with their athletes. Now they may not always be difficult to have, but if you have an athlete that is not meeting their expectations, you as a coach need to know how to approach and begin the conversation. Some of my athletes prefer this type of conversation before we throw. Some after practice. Others can have a conversation during (but I prefer to not have that conversation during a throwing or lifting session). However, once your athletes know that you as a coach want them to reach their goals, it helps establish the relationship and make it stronger. Speaking about expectations also provides your athletes with some autonomy. It gives them a sense of control over the conversation, what they expect from their coach, and how they want to get to their destination.
Autonomy is important. There is an abundance of literature out there about the relationship between autonomy supportive behaviors provided by the coach and athlete outcomes and performances. Athletes that perceive their coaches to provide more autonomy supportive behaviors feel more comfortable with their coach and tend to have more rewarding athletic experiences.
As coaches, do you give your athletes an opportunity to be a part of the process? What would your athletes say about you? Would they perceive you to be autonomy supportive, or would they say that they don’t have a voice in deciding and/or planning out their athletic endeavors?
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
This is a difficult topic for me to write about. I’ve had other coaches ask me on multiple occasions how we ‘do’ things at Nazareth College. Up until a couple of years ago, I never really spent that much time thinking about it. We just did ‘it’. Unable to define what ‘it’ is up until recently, I’ll give it a shot today.
As our throwers were arriving to practice on Monday, I asked them how their weekend was. We had a meet the Friday before, and going more than two consecutive days without seeing my throwers is very uncommon. As we were discussing the practice format for the day, they told me they got together on Saturday and had a potluck lunch. They organized this on their own. I was very pleasantly surprised that they organized such an event, on their own, without any prodding from me or any of the other coaches.
Like I mentioned, up until a couple of years ago, I didn’t really pay attention to our team culture. It ultimately ended up coming back to bite me in 2017. I was left confused, shaken, and distraught in the fact that I had lost my kids. No, not at a track meet. But lost in a sense that they didn’t believe in me and our program. I assumed (it is never ok to assume anything) that everything was ok. The year prior our seniors handled anything that may have come to the surface. If there was an issue brewing, they let me know. Otherwise, they handled most of the team bonding and culture building on their own (another big mistake).
After that 2016-17 season, I tried my best in 2017-18 to approach things differently. I was more positive at practice. I was more cognizant of my words/phrasing of things in conversation. I always thought I expressed an interest in their majors, life activities, and other happenings that college students have to face and deal with on a regular basis. Unfortunately, a lot of what I tried to implement was viewed in vain. I had one senior athlete that had been with us through the very best of times and the very worst of times. My attempt at being a more positive and nurturing coach faltered.
Thinking back to the 2014-15 season, I called or emailed some of my former throwers while I was working on my doctorate. A lot of our presentations and group projects were focused on our leadership abilities, decision-making skills, and ways to overcome adversity. I presented about situations I faced as a throwing coach at two very different NCAA Division III institutions. I asked my former throwers to create short videos about times we agreed, disagreed, handled adversity, and overcame obstacles together to realize their (the athletes’) goals they had set out for themselves. A lot of what came back centered on positive coaching skills. They shared their thoughts about open communication, goal-setting, and transferring track skills into life skills.
Getting back to coaching at Nazareth, I spent a lot of time over the summer thinking about how I was going to approach this 2018-19 season. With a new group of throwers, I wanted to make sure that we shared our expectations for the season, goals we wanted to achieve, and plan out how we were going to do that. Before our season officially started, I met with each thrower individually. I asked them to share their ideas for the upcoming season, how they liked to be coached, and how we could balance their coursework with practice times.
Most importantly, we shared expectations. I asked each person individually to share their expectations they had for me and what I expected of them. This part of the conversation is what I believe has helped establish our Nazareth College throwing culture. Let me correct that, these conversations shaped our culture because each thrower shared their expectations with everyone else. We kept those expectations posted in our practice area. Every day we had practice, they were reminded of what they expected of themselves, what they expected of me, and what they expected from the group.
Each day we talked about our expectations. What we expected from ourselves and our team. It wasn’t until we started discussing recruits and who they would stay with for their overnight visits that I realized we had come together as a group. As I was sharing details about how overnight trips typically went, one of the athletes asked me if the recruits had to throw with us if they decided to come to Naz. I was caught off guard, and wasn’t sure where this conversation was going. Another athlete said, “Yeah, if we don’t like her can we tell you? We don’t want anyone to come that isn’t going to fit in with our team.” It was at that moment that I realized we had finally come together as a team and had established our culture.
We established our culture by:
When I first started coaching, the 22-year old me would not have felt comfortable with my athletes sharing what they expected of me and what they expected of their teammates. There were times during my first couple years as coach that I did not feel comfortable having difficult conversations with my athletes. I was afraid to have the discussion. I remember my stomach getting tied up in knots at the thought of having a difficult conversation. Now, I encourage my athletes to share their thoughts on a daily basis.
We had just finished our weight room session this afternoon when I asked them what they thought of the past couple of weeks. They shared what they liked, didn’t like, and what they wanted to try differently. The younger me would not have wanted to change course. But, I value their opinions and only they know how they feel after a training session or weight lifting session. I also met with a couple of throwers individually. For some, plans have slightly changed. For others, we are staying the course because, as they told me, they feel comfortable with how things are going and that they are making progress every day. For the couple that asked to make some changes, we are going to do so. It’s not what is supposed to make me feel comfortable, but what makes my athletes comfortable.
You never really know how a group of individuals are going to gel when brought together for the very first time. This season, unlike any other of my career, brought five individuals together in October, and were declared teammates. The first time in my coaching career that my whole group of student-athletes were freshmen.
Now, just because they come together because they are teammates does not necessarily mean they are going to become a true team just for the sake of doing so. It takes a concentrated effort by the coach to create a culture that will indeed bring everyone together. Unlike more traditional team sports, track & field is a little different. Yes, we are a team striving to win a team championship. However, each individual has their own goals they want to accomplish as well. It takes a balance between managing each athlete’s goals with the larger expectations of the group.
I didn’t need to bring this group of individuals together. They brought themselves together. Now we met often before the start of the season, but two of the five were playing other sports at the start of the season. Another athlete missed the first week for other reasons. We started with two. Grew to three. Then really gelled with five. I realized they were a tight group that had bought in when they told me if it was ok to tell me if they didn't like a potential recruit if they thought they wouldn't fit in with our team. As I coach, I knew they had definitely come together after that moment in December after one of our practices.
For their first semester experience involved with collegiate track & field, I have to say that I was very pleasantly surprised with how they each managed their own expectations of what collegiate track was like as well as the academic rigors they experienced in their specific majors. A couple of interesting things about this group of athletes. First, they are a very focused group of individuals. They understand the importance of their academic successes, but are able to put those thoughts aside for the hour or two that they are at practice. Second, we did not have any issues with cell phones during practice. Unfortunately, I have had that issue before. We spoke about at the beginning of the season, and that was it. Ultimately, they are able to eliminate distractions for a couple of hours and focus on what they need to do. Third, they are goal-oriented. At the beginning of the season I asked everyone what they wanted to accomplish by the end of the fall semester. To my pleasant surprise, not one of them wrote down a distance they wanted to throw before the semester was over. Rather than write down outcome goals, each individual wrote down process goals. Again, in the past a typical goal that may have been written was more about throwing a specific distance in the shot-put or weight throw. Not with this group.
They concluded the fall semester having broken the women’s indoor shot-put and 20lb. weight throw records. I wasn’t surprised the records were broken. The fashion they were broken did catch me a bit off guard. First throw by Gabbie broke the shot-put record. Similarly, first throw by Ally broke the 20lb. weight throw record. Gabbie increased her record in round 6. Three throwers threw farther than the previous weight throw record. Three girls over 40’ in the weight (a coaching best for me), as well as three over 10m in the shot-put (a coaching best for me).
I cannot say enough positive things about our six pieces of five (if you know, you know). I’m very proud of how dedicated they were to learning how to throw the weight, increase their understanding of shot-put mechanics, and the patience to take each practice one at a time. When I was an athlete, I couldn’t wait to throw in our first meet. Now, as a coach, I wish I could slow time down in order to have more deliberate practices completed. Most importantly, I’m most proud of their academic accomplishments. They all performed well this fall, and all earned a GPA greater than my first semester GPA. It isn’t difficult to achieve that feat, but I have shared some of my collegiate academic stories with them.
Another piece to the collegiate puzzle, and what I feel is most important, is the opportunity to develop a positive, supportive, and nurturing coach-athlete relationship with each individual. I’ll put my research hat on for a moment, but past and present empirical literature suggests that the coach-athlete relationship is the number one most important factor from the perspective of the athlete that led them to achieving their successes in athletics. I can provide a detailed reference list if you would like, but 20 years of literature in team, individual, professional, youth, and Olympic coach-athlete dyads suggests that the more powerful and real the relationship is between the athlete and coach, the greater success the athlete feels they have achieved.
We will continue to build our culture at Nazareth College. We will remain steadfast on accomplishing our academic and athletic goals. Our telescope vision is in place. Our microscope goals have been carefully planned and discussed. We know what we need to do this semester to take another step closer to realizing our visions. We are ready.
Ally, Bailey, Gabbie, Grace, & Katie, I look forward to another great semester of growth, development, learning, and long throws!
Your Coach ~ Coach Infurna
I’m sitting just outside my five-year old’s wrestling practice, and I just got a little emotional. Well, actually a lot of emotions are running through me as I try to capture these thoughts. My wife and I have encouraged him (our oldest son, 5 year’s old) to try out a variety of different sports. We have played t-ball, a little run of gymnastics, indoor soccer, swimming, and now wrestling.
Parents are not allowed to sit inside the gym and watch practice. Tonight he asked me to stay. I told him I would love to watch him practice wrestling. There are a couple of families here with me, sitting outside in the hallway. We can hear the young wrestlers (K-6th grade) talk, engage in some laughter, and transition from drill to drill as they warm-up for tonight’s activities.
I’m not sure what the flood of emotions is right now. Maybe it is because I’m watching him through a small window in the door. He caught me watching once, stopped mid run, and blew me a kiss. I’m getting teary eyed just writing this down.
He hasn’t been afraid to try anything new. We ask him if he is interested, and more often than not he says yes. He wasn’t interested in trying Lacrosse. He isn’t interested in Football. Basketball, well not quite.
This past weekend my wife and I took our two oldest boys ice skating. It was my first time being on skates. And to be perfectly honest, I was terrified. The assistance apparatus they have is built for young kids, not adults. My kids took to it well. My wife knows how to skate. I, on the other hand, held onto the side glass for dear life. I made it around the rink a couple of times. I got the biggest right tricep pump of my life. I could not have held onto that little lip around the glass any harder than I did. I also got the biggest cramp in my left hamstring (probably from trying to brace myself and stabilize). Like I said, I was scared to death.
My kids fell a couple of times. They got right back up and continued on their way. I couldn’t keep up with either of them. Even the three-year old was moving faster than I was. I’m 6’1”. It’s a long way down if I fall. Not as much of a distance for my little guys. I was so scared, in fact, that I registered for ice skating lessons with my two boys. They said they wanted to learn and try it. My wife is already a pretty proficient at skating. So, at 36 years old, I’m signed up for ice skating lessons. Similar to my kids, I’m registered in the most novice section they had. I’ll be skating with a group of three to six-year old children. Not just because I’ll be learning with my children along the way, but because, much like them, I have absolutely zero experience ice-skating.
They say that age is merely but a number. My number isn’t that big. I’m going to turn 37 in February. This is the first time I’ve signed up for something new at this stage of my life. I’m excited to learn something new. I’m especially excited to learn something new with my two oldest boys.
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
I’ve attended my fair share of high school track and field meets over the past five years. While in attendance, something that has always struck me as odd is overhearing conversations between high school coach and athlete that sound something like this:
High School Coach—“Focus on what you are doing. You can (insert technical tip here) better.”
High School Athlete—(Looks at coach with a puzzled look)
High School Coach—“Do you understand what I need you to do?”
High School Athlete—(Still looks puzzled) Ok.
Now, I’m embellishing a little bit, but if you are someone that has attended a sporting event, you’ve probably heard an adult (coach, parent, grandparent, etc.) say something to an athlete about the need for them to focus on what they are doing. To be honest, I’ve never had a coach tell me to focus on something. That can be for a couple of reasons. First, I wasn’t that important to what was going on in the game situation at the time that it was necessary to be told to focus. Second, I may have looked like I was focusing in on what I was doing. Third, my coaches just didn’t ever tell someone to focus. Maybe they just assumed that we were focusing on what we were supposed to be doing.
In my track and field throwing career, I never had a coach tell me I needed to be more focused on what I was doing. Whether at practice, in the weight room, or in the middle of a competition, they never came over and had that conversation with me. Again, maybe I wasn’t that important to what was going on or they just didn’t tell their athletes to focus. I’m not quite sure. I’m also not quite sure if that was a good thing or bad thing.
I’m writing about this topic today because a few months ago I listened to the best podcast episode of 2018, which emphasized focus, and how coaches can teach their athletes to focus on what they need to do. I’ve written about her in the past, but Dr. Amber Selking has one of the best podcasts available to anyone. She brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to her episodes about mental strength and mental conditioning. A few months ago she interviewed her mentor Dr. Rick McGuire, the godfather of mental strength and conditioning. In this interview, Dr. McGuire speaks about focus, breaks it down into five teachable tips, and goes into very specific detail about each tip and how coaches can teach their athletes to focus. You can clink the link below to listen to the complete interview between Dr. Selking and Dr. McGuire.
The reason why I’m sharing this with everyone is because it is something I’m going to emphasize for myself in 2019. I’m going to spend diligent time practicing the skill of focus, and how I can better focus on what I need to accomplish during a particular day, week, month, and year. I’m also going to begin teaching the skill to the athletes I coach at the collegiate and high school level.
I did begin working on the skill with one of my high school athletes the other day. I wrote the five parts of focus up on one of our whiteboards in our practice facility. I asked the athlete that I was coaching that day if anyone had ever spoke to him about it. He answered no. We spent about fifteen minutes discussing the five tips, what they mean, and how he can practice the skills at home, at practice, and in the weight room. I took a picture of the whiteboard, and sent it to him. I also sent him a text that included the link to Dr. Selking’s podcast link.
Since I started training for my upcoming powerlifting meet in March, I’ve spent a lot of time training in the garage with my two oldest boys. The commotion in the garage while attempting to squat, bench, and deadlift has been a bit overwhelming at times. However, I have begun implementing the training tips that Dr. McGuire and Dr. Selking discussed in their recent podcast.
Just today I asked my five-year old to hold the camera while I attempted my squat top end set of 455lbs. (78% of my max) for 6 reps. It took a lot of patience and concentration to be in the moment while completing this set. I’ve been really emphasizing step one of being in the present moment when working out with my kids in the garage. Even though they are running around and playing, I’ve made it a point to remain in the moment, and work really hard to not think about what we just talked about five or ten seconds before I un-rack the weight until after I re-rack it.
It has been a challenge working on the five steps of focus as an adult. I do wonder though how an elementary, middle school, or high school athlete feel/think when an adult tells them to focus on what they are doing, when in all likelihood the adult in the situation probably hadn't taught the athlete the skill to begin with.
Here’s to a fun-filled, engaging, rewarding, and focused 2019!
As always, thanks for reading ~ Charles
It’s calm. It’s quiet. It’s very relaxing. It is Saturday, December 29th. Our two oldest boys are at my parent’s house. The little man is taking his afternoon nap. My wife is out grocery shopping. Times like this do not happen very often.
My wife and I joke that when it is quiet like this, we would prefer to have all three boys up and running around. Their laughter lighting up our lives as each day passes.
It is on days like today that I am able to sit down and reflect. In this case, reflect on the year that has passed on what to look forward to in the next. What follows are my highlights of 2018, lowlights of 2018, and things to accomplish in 2019.
Highlights of 2018
Lowlights of 2018
Things to Accomplish in 2019
What do you hope to achieve in 2019?
Dr. Charles Infurna
Charles Infurna, Ed.D., is the owner and lead coach of Forza Athletics Track Club. Dr. Infurna has coached National Record Holders, National Champions, All-Americans, and Conference Champions at the Post-Collegiate, Collegiate, and High School level.